Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You being “bossy” is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Established” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Established Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Established Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

Some people are just born more confident. Use your stablity to help those who feel weak!!
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE ESTABLISHED NEED
If you have the Established Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to lead, delegate and own. You are established, dominant and determined.

In Your Head
It’s like you are the king of the hill. You like to be important, be the authority and be the rule maker. Someone has to be the boss, why not you? Under an often staunch, confident and “it’s all about me” appearance, you really are a person who has the underdog in your best interest. You were born strong so you help the weak.

In Your Heart and Soul
You need to feel secure and stable in order to be happy. You love to own your own things. Don’t let your possessions run your life. Sometimes you are asked to make hard choices so you need to be concentrated. Not always can you make everyone happy. You are brave but sometimes too dominant and competitive. Give others space to grow. 
 
In Your Body
You want to keep yourself physically fit. If you are burning out mentally do some yoga, breathing and relaxed streching. Then get into a competitive sport so you can learn to be a good winner and even better loser. Make sure you do stretching for your neck, back and knees. It’s tough to bend to other people’s rules.
Your predictable pitfall is being afraid of being poor or not having anything. You are often too willing to fight, or even too willing to give in. Find your place in life and stand tall. Your sweet spot is leading, being confident and creating wealth!