Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You sometimes “being a doormat” is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Adaptable” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Adaptable Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Adaptable Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

The people in the world need more tender loving care. Could you be the one who gives it? Give yourself TLC first!
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE ADAPTABLE NEED
If you have the Adaptable Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to help, serve and listen. You are adaptable, different and open minded.

In Your Head
It’s like anywhere you go you feel at home. You are not a picky person. You adapt well, accept the circumstances and see the positive aspect in every person and situation. You come up with different kinds of solutions because you are looking at problems from many different angles. You don’t have preconceived ideas. You prefer not to conform but to listen to what you really want.

In Your Heart and Soul
Your heart bleeds when others are in difficulty. You would do anything for anyone. Sometimes you sacrifice your own needs for those of others. It is easy to be a martyr but then it doesn’t really serve anyone for you to give up your life. When you dedicate time to yourself everyday you are more energised to help others.  
 
In Your Body
With this Need you could have a softer body and smiling face. This Need does not require you to take up competitive sports or do strenuous movements to find body, mind and soul balance. It does require that you go within yourself. Rediscover what you love and do it without feeling selfish.
Your predictable pitfall is lacking willpower, feeling abbandoned by others, or just “playing the martyr”. Maybe you live a pretend sense of happiness. You might do anything just to have others accept you. Your sweet spot is serving those in need with an open heart!