Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You needing some time alone is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Questioning” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Questioning Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Questioning Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

Your wisdom always sounds so much older than your age. So where does all that come from?
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE QUESTIONING NEED
If you have the Questioning Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to advice, analyse and reflect. You are questioning, wise and calm.

In Your Head
It’s like you dream of sitting on top of a mountain all by yourself. It is important for you to sometimes be alone. Daily quiet time is essential. You are great at peacefully analyzing situations, pondering problems and coming up with wise solutions. You need a place to have silence and thinking time. If you don’t, you might create drama and make a mountain out of a molehill.

In Your Heart and Soul
You might have noticed that ever since you were a child people came to you for advice. You have the energy of a grandparent who has gained maturity from lots of life experiences and shares them calmly with others. Maybe you love being in the role of a counselor, mentor or therapist. You are naturally patient. Try to be less doubtful. 
 
In Your Body
With this Need, you feel best in a slow paced lifestyle or even just walking as a sport. Do whatever you feel is therapeutic for your body.
Your predictable pitfall is isolating yourself too much and becoming pessimistic, grumpy and lonesome. It seems you come alive in crisis. Your sweet spot is in moderation, introspection and contemplation!