Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You needing to help other people get along is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Connected” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Connected Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Connected Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

If there's one person who wants everyone in the world to stay peacefully united, that's you.
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE CONNECTED NEED
If you have the Connected Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to mediate, network and negotiate. You are connected, affectionate and peaceful.

In Your Head
It’s like spinning silk. You have all the distinct silk threads that you weave together to make one beautiful creation. You weave together people and ideas. You have an optimistic outlook and can easily reconcile relationships with your peaceful approach, reconnecting the threads that have severed.

In Your Heart and Soul
All you want is peace and harmony. You want people to get along. You play the match maker so people meet and connect. You play the “guardian angel” so people feel protected from harm. You want things moderate, not excessive. You are serene, friendly and kind. You enjoy mixing and mingling too.
 
In Your Body
It’s also about moderation. You cannot handle things in excess, especially drugs, alcohol or video games, because it’s easy to fall into dependency. You take up moderate sports in which there are flowing movements for your muscles and delicate stretching for your ligaments.
Your predictable pitfall is getting stuck on or overly attached to people, things or places. Instead of a bond, you create bondage. Your sweet spot is negotiating, mediating and communing!