Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You being talkative is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Engaging” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Engaging Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Engaging Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

Is there one thing that really moves you to speak about? Tell stories so others can be moved too.
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE ENGAGING NEED
If you have the Engaging Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to create, talk and seduce. You are engaging, charming and genial.

In Your Head
It’s like you are a lush, fertile field where you can germinate anything and it grows. You have a certain geniality about how you come up with imaginative and creative ideas. You are very communicative. You love to engage socially, converse and persuade. Public speaking, sales and design are come easily to you. They are your natural talents.

In Your Heart and Soul
You are very cheerful, romantic and feminine – even if you are a man. You have a light hearted enthusiasm for life. You are loquacious but sometimes talk a lot without saying much. Challenge yourself to use your words to move other people’s emotions. This requires that you be in your emotions. It’s fine to have negative thoughts that are difficult to express. Don’t become speechless, quiet or closed up. You can always find a delicate way to say things that hurt. 
 
In Your Body
The goal is to get pass from creativity to productivity. Write down your ideas on paper and make a plan. Cultivate a project and plant the seed. Take action, don’t just talk about it. Keep your energy high by moving your hips in an exercise like belly dancing. Take care of your throat. You could take voice lessons.
Your predictable pitfall is having too many ideas at the same time and not being able to express and realize them all. You don’t have a strategy to get them out of your head and into action. You might feel a bit of intellectual competition.
Your sweet spot is being beautiful, having a loving nature and bringing things to fruition in a very seductive way.