Personality is the “equipment” that you use to make your way through life. It is vitally important to understand what yours are and how to leverage them to create happiness, have success and feel fulfilled. You being sometimes confused is an aspect of your Personality.

Maybe you just have the “Selective” Need.

When you don’t know how to use your Personality, you struggle to make certain things work out – like relationships and career advancements. Often you second guess or question yourself, spending more time overthinking things, confused or worried, instead of feeling sure of yourself.

THE TOUGH TRUTH ABOUT PERSONALITY

Yes, the tough part about Personality, is that you have your own unique set of “sports gear” and with that, no one could ever really teach you how to use who you are properly to reach your fullest potential. Your parents, caregivers and role models had their own stuff to use and were trying to figure out how to use their “equipment” to solve their issues and create their lives. So they weren’t necessarily capable to show you how to use what you have inside!

So what does it take for you to reach into that sports bag (called you) and pull out the right piece of gear (talent) at the right time? How do you get to being skillful at living your life, your way? Let’s solve this Personality enigma once and for all!

Watch the video and also read below

What it's Like to Be You

Watch the video above to hear the details of "what it's like" to have the Selective Personality Need. And then read the excerpt from my Best Selling book "Modus Vivendi - Your Life Your Way" below to get a snapshot of how you feel, think and act. Remember, it's not just understanding the Personality Need, it is also knowing where it is in your Complete Personality. If you already have your Personality Profile, then this video will help you really express more of your potential in the precise Facet of Personality in which you have the Selective Need. If you still need your Profile then visit the Profile page.

Beauty is most appreciated when you take life slow. Show others how to do the same!
Diana Dentinger
Creator Personality & Needs Profile®
ABOUT THE SELECTIVE NEED
If you have the Selective Need in one of the 12 Facets of your Complete Personality, then here are some of your positive aspects. You love to design, appreciate and touch. You are selective, enthusiastic and sensual.

In Your Head
It’s like you always think of how to make things pleasureable. It could be in how you create a slower paced business meeting for creative exchanges or set a dinner table with flowers and a linen table cloth. You know you get results when things are enjoyable. Sometimes there are too many choices to make and you get confused. Things could seem impossible. One thing at time is best.

In Your Heart and Soul
What would life be like without the variety of colors for your eyes, without wonderful smells for your nose, with beautiful music for your ears? Not to mention without touching nice fabrics or caressing a loved one. You, in particular would find it so void of meaning. Everything that you pick up with your 5 senses makes life sensual. You enjoy and appreciate all the beauty around you, and if you don’t have beauty… well, life is pretty gloomy. You have sophisticated, delicate and elegant taste but sometimes come off as being spoiled. 
 
In Your Body
You could watch a spectacular sunset on the beach for hours if it lasted that long! You are not a fast doer, but rather an enjoyer. You don’t appreciate sweaty sports and smelly gyms to stay in shape but you do like the look of a healthy body because it is a work of art. Keep yours sculpted and shaped. You like to wear nice clothes and feel the texture of the material on your skin.

Your predictable pitfall is being confused with “too much”. You get easily perplexed then sullen or greedy. You could even be too influenced by other people’s bad moods. Your sweet spot is your artistic ability, being stylish and having good taste!